People are surprised that it passed–I’m not surprised. I grew up in Orange County; I’m not surprised at all. I think that San Francisco and Los Angeles might be surprised by the result, but the rest of the state clearly isn’t. I fully expected it to pass. I attribute its success to a few things:
1. California isn’t as left as it’s often portrayed. The coasts (minus the OC) are, to a large degree, but head into the agricultural heart of the state and you’ll see something quite different in terms of political belief.
2. People hate being bullied. The commercials and campaigning on both sides were atrocious and incredibly boring. And no one likes getting phone calls about it–the roomies and I have about 9 unheard messages on our apartment voicemail regarding said prop.
The No on 8 supporters were definitely more militant than the pro side. Much more aggressive. I believe there was some screaming on bruinwalk, and more than once I almost got stickered without knowing it. I suspect that people who where on the fence did not take kindly to being told that they were intolerant and the equivalent of racists if they voted Yes. Perhaps this makes the No on 8 activists feel energized to say these things, but I would wager that it is not very convincing or attractive to the undecided voters.
I saw the Yes on 8 people talking to individuals, quietly, one-on-one, whereas the No on 8 supporters were shouting a few feet away and waving their signs around like madmen.
The No side very much used the language of the Civil Rights movement to make their case. To be honest, I don’t think that this sits well with people, particularly some African Americans who feel that the two causes are quite different.
3. Religious concerns. The ultimate concern behind many religious people’s support for this proposition is, I think, that churches, mosques, synagogues etc. will be forced to change their theology to accommodate the social institution of gay unions. The nightmare, is of course, that this is a slippery slope to the government demanding that churches allow gay people to marry in church, at the cost of religious freedom.
Therefore my suggestion is that we do away with the institution of marriage as a state-sponsored thing. I think any couple–gay or straight–should be allowed to have a civil union. Then they can go to the religious institution of their choice, if they so desire, and get married or call the civil union a marriage or whatever.