So, one of my childhood friends was diagnosed with cancer this past week. I am reeling a little bit. I went to see her this Friday, and she looks so healthy: lovely hair, skin, fashionable and humorous as always. Next week she starts chemo.
There is really no good explanation for this. I won’t be seeing her for about half a year, probably, due to the treatment process. She was fairly upbeat, considering the situation, and very optimistic. Still, it hung over our heads like a cloud the entire evening. I felt like I was a little quieter than I should have been, but talking about everyday things didn’t seem particularly appropriate. What can I do for her? I wish I could do something.
Today I went to another friend’s priestly vows ceremony. It was a beautiful mass; I don’t think I’ve ever been in a Catholic church that filled with people. The music was pleasant, and the atmosphere in the chapel itself was contemplative. I felt very comfortable there, probably the most comfortable I’ve ever felt at a church service. It was peaceful. Moreover, it was consoling, considering the day before, and I was grateful to have attended.
He has chosen a challenging path and she has many challenges ahead. All I can think to do is to pray for them both.
